What happened to fidelity in this world?

Seriously.

A man I was dating (and seriously considering spending the rest of my life with) two years ago just wrote me about how proud he is about doing various things with two married women last night. He's immensley proud that he obtained both of their numbers and that he no longer cares about morality.

This is a guy with two children that depend upon him, both are under the age of five.

Guh.

Great example you are setting Dad, should I just put Jerry Springer on speed-dial right now?

It's funny how you think you know someone, and especially how people change over time. It's also really funny that people can take such vows and disreguard them to the wind whenever it seems convenient. I know that alot of people are whining about the institution of marriage is being dashed and shattered in this great country. I do believe in divorce, why should someone remain in a situation that creates unhappiness and stress to a level they cannot handle? Infidelity on the other hand I really have little to no tolerance for. No wonder I'm such an old maid in the middle of Utah.

A good friend of mine and I were speaking on the subject of cheating. I was sharing with her that I had the opprotunity to cheat hadn't. Whereas my fiance at the time had taken the opprotunity to cheat and spent the week with my best friend. She listened carefully and then shared something unlike anything I had ever heard before. Her boyfriend and her had a pact. If ever they came across the situation where they had made the conscious decision in their mind to cheat, they would call the other right before doing so. Why? Because that would be the end of the relationship. Instead of violating the trust between each other, they would inform the other that because they had made this decision and they were about to do this that the situation had become so obvious that they were not supposed to be together.

I believe in choice, I believe in humanity... But indeed there are some people that disappoint me greatly in the way that they treat others.